The problem is part of life. Normal life would encounter a problem. The problem is the interaction effect of life. This raises a wide variety of problems as a result. Pain, sadness, fear and so the quasi judged negatively labeled. Economic problems, health, social is often the case.
However, your problem now is not ending from the sweety of life. It will also ending
The difficulty of the problem depends on the size of the problems encountered and the experience that could only feel the bitterness of this maximum.
When problems peaked, we are often impatient, depressed and often hopeless. This should not happen, we must be strong to face the side of life. Sure is there will be a useful lesson worth the suffering we are experiencing.
Here are general tips to be consistent, patient, steadfast and strong in the face of problems.
- Realize that you have a problem that has been awaited arrival seblumnya. (Though not in want, but must be accepted)
- Be aware of what your problem and its causes.
This step to be able to identify the extent of our problems and as a basis for prevention not to recur in the future.
- Realize that everyone has experienced a problem.
They are partly won and partly lost in despair's decision. And convince yourself that I could definitely be a winner.
- Realize that this will be ended, and you will take a valuable lesson from it.
That the problem will open the eyes of your heart, your mind wide open, paving the way and opportunities hidden strength that you do not get if the problem does not occur. Pain being suffered to establish an antibiotic to add strength to the body afterwards.
- 5. Realize that God will not charge past the pain to his servant, servants ability.
Convince yourself to the Creator, he who owns and controls the bitter sweet life. Put yourself in prayer. Tabahkan hearts with resignation.
- Realize that your life is not alone.
There is a God who is always keeping, as well as family and friends who could help alleviate our problems. Make sure that the function of them is to share with us in a bitter or sweet. Thus, effective lines of communication and ask for help.
- Realize that many roads in front of bright eyes.
Keep in despair. Round determination to immediately mengahiri problem. For example, relatives who are terminally ill,''collapsed''as finances, this should not be a reason not to treat. Bepikirlah moment, there is a way, for example, by debt. Debt is a problem too, but its completion may be delayed. Priority is important above the some needs.
- Realize that you are a real man if able to deal with.
Beyond your ability, no comment, it is the way ahir. And you can still smile, proud to have done Sedaya capable, proud to receive a test from God, though dipandangan result was not optimal, but it's a reality that must be accepted.
- Realize that when one problem overcome, the next will come other problems.
Be prepared to wait, you will not be surprised anymore to accept it, but promised to deal with it wisely.
Smile, smile give the smile. Each time offering help and be a helper while other people are in need, because someday we would need help. Helper at the right time is the incarnation of an angel for help.
May be useful .. :-)
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